Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Why Is He Distant?

Lisa from London writes:

Hey Chauntel!

first of all i am a huge fan and i trust your advice....

i like this guy since we chated in summer in june, we chat everyday and when school started he deleted me from everything including is black berry messanger. I still like him and i wanna talk to him face to face but i cant cause i have no confidence and very shy, all girls drool over him like hes a piece of candy. He likes to talk to 3 specific girls and 1 new girl who is ugly and chats with her...

so my question is why is he ignoring me since sckool started and why doesnt he wanna say hi or smile?

Hello Lisa,

In order to be a good boyfriend, they guy must first be a good friend. He is not treating you as a friend should. What does this mean? He needs to mature, and until then you will be wasting your time if you continue to pursue him.

You cannot force someone to do something they don't want to do. If he is not interested in talking to you, you have to let it go. There is a guy who would feel honored to grace your prescence. He is not the guy.

I Hope This Helps!


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