I decided to continue answering your question here since the video was cut off in the editing process.
I will continue where I left off.
You really need to focus on what you want. At 36 years old it is time to set a path for yourself. You should align your personal and professional goals. It is time to be serious about your dating life.
The next women that you date should be for finding a wife, a companion, otherwise you will get caught up in this cycle and continue until these women look down on you, or chose not to take you seriously.
It is time to find out who you are and move forward!
I Hope This Helps!