Monday, December 6, 2010


  1. I sent this to your email please read

    Ok so my name is Raven, I'm 15, and I'm from Chicago!!!!

    I know this s long but please just give a sister some advice

    Dear Chauntel sorry if I misspelled your name,

    I really love and respect you videos, and I headed toward being a Social Worker when I get older (just a fun fact, because I saw what you are majoring in). So let's get to work, I have a goofy personality and I’m popular but not that popular; I don’t know if you understand or not but as you read more you will. I used to have a problem with my appearance because I’m chubby, but after so many people telling me I’m pretty I started to believe it. I'm very smart I’m in all honors, and on the honor roll, school it not my problem, and I am aware of who I am so that's not a problem either. DUN DUN DUN it's about a boy and I’m head over hills for him, but sometimes he confuses me. We don't go out, but he makes it seem like we do. I catch him looking at me all the time, sometimes he turns his head sometimes he just keeps looking. He ask me about my day, makes me laugh w/ the things he says and touches me, (When I say touch I mean like my arm, or grab my hand). He always teases me about dancing with him or grabs me to dance or just wants me to dance period, but I don’t feel that secure with I feel strange or nervous. Don’t get me wrong I like him a lot, but other girls do to. He's on the basketball team and does a pretty good job. He smart, and knows what to say like he's SO SMOOTH!!!! but then it's the days that he won't speak, he can't avoid me because we have 5 classes together and I see him in the halls, but he stands up for me against other guys.

    ***things that I should add is 1. when we do good (like talk, play fight/ argue, and work in groups) he puts lyrics on his page about love

    2. he has a gf, which is like STOP but my feeling won't change and I try so hard

    3. he will talk to other people around me on certain days but not me, when I engage with other males

    4. he notices everything on me like makeup, hair do's, clothes, even my feelings so like if I’m mad he wants to know what's wrong and make it better

    5. he also has come behind me several times (like really really in my personal space but I LOVE IT!!

    6. he knows my friends, and we only have known each other since Aug, but been like this since late Sept.

    7. I don’t know of him dating heavy set girls

    Q: I'm confused does he like me, if not how should I get over him, if so what should I do n what's going on between us. I really really like him he's so popular I’m too but not as much as him, so is this a ego thing with him?????? I'm going crazy inside!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    or is he just confused

    please please please answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  2. Hello Raven!

    I just wanted to thank you for your comment. I answered your email (:

    All The Best,